I have a Lorne in my life.

That’s what they said about pedo priests.”well they can’t get married”
So they go for kids? They can go get a hooker I’ve seen those collection plates Ik they have the funds.
I hate enablers.

Yeah imo my mother enabling my abuser hurts more than the actual abuse even though it affects my daily life. But Im in my 30s now and Ive had a lot of time to process everything

Again, not something you have to answer. 

Did you have any siblings or cousins too or was he focused on you alone? In my family there are a shitload of girls and I and my brother were the nephews of my creepy uncle. And it's not like he tried to molest us, more like he tried to encourage us to do the same shit that a bi-polar schizo dude in his mid thirties would do on a daily basis because in his mind that's what we should be doing. He never even talked to my sister or my girl cousins. I doubt they even knew he existed half the time. My brother and I got the brunt of his horrifying stories of the horrible things he had done in his life. 

The most Lorne-like person I ever met was a female. Not sure if this is true for anyone else but this girl shared so many similarities. She was even born in October and had the same bulky compact body as Lorne. She would date anyone (male, female, old, young, homeless). However, she had a thing for married men with children. Like she wanted to have an affair with the husband and eventually switch places with the wife. She liked the idea of the wife suffering and not having to go through the pregnancy process. She’s in her 40s now and is still a train wreck. Luckily she hasn’t wrecked any homes... yet.

I can say that the most Lorne-like person i've known was also a female. It was some woman I went out on one date with and there were clear Lorne-like vibes from her, such as an undercurrent of desperation and being more interested in the idea of a relationship than caring who i even was as a person. Then there was her already trying to dictate where i could or couldn't go after said date and us not even being in a relationship. She would go on tirades on the phone about what she wanted and didn't want in a relationship for like an hour or so without even caring much about my input(I might as well have been Jaimie on the ventilator in the hospital).Not even the prospect of easy guaranteed sex was enough to keep me from electing to stay home to play video games than going out on a second date with her like she had wanted.

There were also inconsistencies with her age as well which was another cause for alarm.

You can’t just hint at something like that and NOT tell us the stories.