Post by InstantKarma on Mar 10, 2024 2:47:26 GMT -5
I was listening to this. Honestly I'm no psychologist or anything but this absolutely screams virgin to me. He's getting so upset over Cas3y having a friend (that she'd made out with in the past) stay the night after going on a "date" (Lorne's words). It just strikes me as this extreme paranoia that the thing he wants (any kind of mutual connection with a woman) is up in the air because of her actions. Granted non-virgins can also do this, but the way Lorne's going about it.... it just strikes me as butthurt pussy who isn't getting what he wants because he's never had it and he's afraid other people will get it. i.e. he's acting like a teenager with very little life experience in terms of romance, etc.
Funny enough I remember being a teenager when the girl I liked was hanging out with another guy. We were texting all summer and all of a sudden she's getting in a hot tub at some guy's house. You bet your ass I was paranoid and my feelings were taking over. When I suspected they got physical (which ended up being true as they started dating) I was insecure and felt like shit about my inability to get what I wanted. Lorne's 100% exhibiting the same emotions.
It's such a ridiculous situation for Lorne to be so mad about. So she made out with him -- it doesn't mean they're going to hook up the second they're alone. Hell I had sexual relations in 2016-2017 with a female friend, and I visited her and spend the night in 2019. Nothing happened! Did I care, not at all, because she's my friend and just because shit happened in the past doesn't mean it dictates the future. And that's something Lorne has no life experience in that regard.
Hope this makes sense. I haven't slept for over a day.
What it actually shows is that in many regards but especially when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex his thoughts, feelings, mentally , emotional reactions & behavior never advanced past the way a young teenager dealing with the opposite sex for the first time would be.
But like I said it'd not just that. There are a ton of examples of him behaving like a child would.
The stories he tells, the excuses to justify his behavior or take the responsibility away from him. The ridiculous excuses for everything hes ever done.
The are all the kind that a child who has little life experience would come up with but any adult would see through immediately.
When all else has failed as a last resort we've often heard him say this ....
"I don't care what I (said/did/wrote) You don't know what's in my head . Only I know & I know in my mind I was never really going to do it.
Thats a child's answer. No adult says that.
Lets play twister on our date.
DI'd he touch your hand because that means his interested.
19:40
A perfect example and its happened a couple of times. He was asked something he definitely was embarrassed to answer.
Listen to the way he says "I DON'T KNOW" It's actually kinda fascinating to me because he sounds exactly like a child when saying it.
I can say I've ever heard an adults voice sound as childish as his has at times.
When they ask him if he's crying.
When he decided Debbie was playing games and never really was interested as well as when Cas3y told him she couldn't help who she became interested in and couldn't guarantee not to become interested in another guy before Lorne got his chance. Both times he sounds like a whining child when he says "I fucking love you Debbie." & "Because I have feelings for you Cas3y."
I don't know why but this is the kind of stuff that I find interesting these days about old 87.