87’s Tenets: Life and Relationship
Mar 29, 2023 16:56:27 GMT -5
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Post by Weren’t My False on Mar 29, 2023 16:56:27 GMT -5
The Tenets 87 Lives By:
1A-I am not perfect, therefore, I can mess up as many times as I want to and no one can give me shit about it.
2A-I’m not responsible for my actions. They’re due to bullshit from my past, a reaction to something you did, or…
3A-The negative traits I display are not who I am as a person, only the positive traits I show are who I am.
4A-You cannot bring up anything from my past as an example to attack me but I can bring my past up as much as I want, to use to excuse/defend my actions.
5A-If you don’t buy my excuses I give for my behavior I will come up with new ones and more as needed…
6A-If I fail to come up with an excuse or feel cornered I will cry or some other distraction to deflect to like pointing out an issue with you.
7A- Honesty is very important. I am an honest person because when someone catches me in a lie, I eventually come clean after they persist long enough that I am lying. All that matters is I was honest eventually, it doesn’t matter that it was after the fact.
8A-Big lies don’t matter cause I eventually came clean and small lies don’t matter cause they are small thus unimportant.
9A-I expect an infinite number of chances because this time is the time it’s going to be different because of ____ reasons.
10A-Confidantes need to be equal and fair. If I don’t have someone to talk to in my life, you shouldn’t have anybody in your life, and if you do, then you cannot talk to them, cause that’s not fair to me.
11A-I am not beholden to the same standards I hold everyone else to.
It’s always different for 87. i.e. Even though the robot has 1 tone, you were yelling at me a lot of the time cause a person doesn’t have to raise their voice to yell. I didn’t yell, I spoke loudly.
12A-I have a euphemism for most of the negative things I do or ways I am, except I don’t believe they are euphemisms, that’s just what they are to me. I didn’t yell, I spoke loudly. It’s not controlling, it’s missing you.
13A-It’s the other person's fault that they do not believe me, it has nothing to do with me constantly lying.
14A-I refuse to look at evidence you have that proves me wrong, and you should believe what I am saying to the contrary.
15A- I don’t need to back up my claims with evidence.
16A-Being confused is the ultimate excuse that can be used to explain away any action or statement.
17A-If I do something bad but don’t remember doing it, or I was drunk while doing it, you should drop it and it’s excused then.
18A- I know how guys think, trust me when I explain how they are.
19A-Length of time is used to measure closeness, and the hierarchy of trustworthiness. If two people advise you, listen to who you’ve known longer.
20A-If I’m not currently doing what you’re talking about at that moment, then it’s in the past and you should leave it there. If you insist on talking about it, then you have to use past tense. I.g. I was a liar, or I was an asshole, currently I am not.
21A-If you were not quiet during 100% of me speaking, I complain about interrupting and will repeat everything over till you listen. I will interrupt you all the time though.
Added 5/24/23
22A-Throwing the same insult back at someone even when it does not make sense is clever and witty.
Added 8/27/23
(23A-No one can claim to know my intent even with mountains of evidence that strongly points to a conclusion.
24A-No one can tell me what happened in my life. It’s my life, not theirs. I am infallible with a perfect memory unless you have proof to the contrary, in which case my memory is terrible. Get off my case; No one’s perfect. Aka (Oh now I remember))
87‘s Relationship Tenets:
1B-Fidelity is expected once I have “feelings” for you because we are working on a relationship at that point, which is the same as being in a relationship.
2B-I must agree to a breakup for it to be valid. Although ….
3B- If you insist you are breaking up with me it’s because you’ve been cheating and have a guy lined up already.
Added 8/27/23
(4B-Fidelity is expected even after breaking up. It’s cheating to do anything with someone else while I still desire a relationship with you.)
5B-I come before everything and everyone in your life.
6B-Do not bring other people into our relationship. That includes talking to them about anything that has to do with me or us, or someone else taking up your time which I am entitled to.
7B- You must stick up for me and never stick up for or defend, someone else to me; especially another guy.
8B-We must talk/ interact as much as possible everyday.
9B-You must cut out, all guys from your life I don’t approve of, and switch to appointments with female workers.
10B-If you don’t respond to my texts, or answer my calls, then you must be cheating on me or talking to other guys at that time. There is no other explanation.
11B-We share everything and hide nothing. That is what closeness is.
12B- I own your pussy, and you own my cawk.
13B-The only one who should be allowed to touch or see your body is me because you are my woman, and you belong to me.
14B-I send so many nudes and cock pics because I know how much you like looking at me and my penis. I’m aware of how attractive me and my penis are.
15B-You should want to send me nudes of yourself.
16B-If you want to be sexual when I don’t want to, I’ll call it sexual bullshit and threaten to hang up the phone, or that you’re gonna lose me, but If I want sexual time you better give it to me or I will bitch and complain.
17B-It’s your job to make me a better person, and get me through all the bowlshit in my life.
18B-Even if it’s me that upset you or made you cry, you should turn to me to talk about it, not your friends.
19B-Me being in love with you explains and excuses the extreme reactions/ abusive behavior I display to you.
20B-Refusing to tell me about something I wanna know about, is hiding something, which means you are lying, which means you are cheating.
21B-If it has to do with you then it is my business and you must tell me about it because you’re my partner.
22B-Threatening to breakup is a valid response to hearing anything I don’t like.
23B-Quality time is determined by quantity.
Added 5/24/23
(24B-If you do not refute something I say, even if you have concretely addressed it before, I will assume that at this time and going forward, that you agree or that it is true.
25B-It’s no use giving me an answer to my question that I do not accept. I will just ignore your answer and ask or reword my question again, again, again, till I get the answer that I want to hear.
26B-I can love you despite not being able to articulate why and wanting you to change just about everything that makes you who you are.
27B-Whether you understand it or not is irrelevant, I understand it and that’s what should matter.)
Added 2/9/24
(28B-I’m not going to lie to you about the way I feel, the things I don’t like, or things you do that bother me, but I’ll lie to you regarding everything else anytime I want to.)